Translation of Malik's Muwatta,
Book 29:
Divorce
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Section: The 'Irrevocable' Divorce
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Book 29, Number 29.1.1:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that a man said to Abdullah ibn
Abbas, "I have divorced my wife by saying I divorce you a hundred times.
What do you think my situation is?" Ibn Abbas said to him, "She was
divorced from you by three pronouncements, and by the ninety-seven, you have
mocked the ayat of Allah."
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Book 29, Number 29.1.2:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that a man came to Abdullah ibn
Masud and said, "I have divorced my wife by saying I divorce you eight
times." Ibn Masud said to him, "What have people told you?" He
replied, "I have been told that I have to part absolutely from her."
Ibn Masud said, "They have spoken the truth. A person who divorces as Allah
has commanded, Allah makes it clear for him, and a person who obscures himself
in error, we make stay by his error. So do not confuse yourselves and pull us
into your confusion. It is as they have said."
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Book 29, Number 29.1.3:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said from Abu Bakr ibn Hazm
thatUmar ibn Abd al-Aziz had asked him what people said about the 'irrevocable'
divorce, and Abu Bakr had replied that Aban ibn Uthman had clarified that it was
declared only once. Umar ibn Abd al-Aziz said, "Even if divorce had to be
declared a thousand times, the'irrevocable' would use them all up. A person who
says, 'irrevocably' has cast the furthest limit."
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Book 29, Number 29.1.4:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab that Marwan ibn al-Hakam decided
that if someone made three pronouncements of divorce, he had divorced his wife
irrevocably.
Malik said, "That is what I like best of
what I have heard on the subject."
29.2 Divorce by Euphemistic Statements
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Book 29, Number 29.1.5:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Umar ibn al-Khattab had
heard in a letter from Iraq that a man said to his wife, "Your rein is on
your withers (i.e. you have free rein)." Umar ibn al-Khattab wrote to his
governor to order the man to come to him at Makka at the time of hajj. While
Umar was doing tawaf around the House, a man met him and greeted him. Umar asked
him who he was, and he replied that he was the man that he had ordered to be
brought to him. Umar said to him, "I ask you by the Lord of this building,
what did you mean by your statement, 'Your rein is on your withers.'?" The
man replied, "Had you made me swear by other than this place, I would not
have told you the truth. I intended separation by that." Umar ibn al-
Khattab said, "It is what you intended."
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Book 29, Number 29.1.6:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Ali ibn Abi Talib used to
say that if a man said to his wife, "You are haram for me," it counted
as three pronouncements of divorce.
Malik said, "That is the best of what I
have heard on the subject."
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Book 29, Number 29.1.7:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar said that
statements like "I cut myself off from you",or"You are
abandoned", were considered as three pronouncements of divorce.
Malik said that any strong statements such as
these or others were considered as three pronouncements of divorce for a woman
whose marriage had been consummated. In the case of a woman whose marriage had
not been consummated, the man was asked to make an oath on his deen, as to
whether he had intended one or three pronouncements of divorce. If he had
intended one pronouncement, he was asked to make an oath by Allah to confirm it,
and he became a suitor among other suitors, because a woman whose marriage had
been consummated, required three pronouncements of divorce to make her
inaccessible for the husband, whilst only one pronouncement was needed to make a
woman whose marriage had not been consummated inaccessible.
Malik added, "That is the best of what I
have heard about the matter."
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Book 29, Number 29.1.8:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said from al-Qasim ibn Muhammad
that a certain man had taken a slave-girl belonging to somebody else as a wife.
He said to her people, "She is your concern," and people considered
that to be one pronouncement of divorce.
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Book 29, Number 29.1.9:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he heard Ibn Shihab say that if a man said
to his wife, "You are free of me, and I am free of you, " it counted
as three pronouncements of divorce as if it were an 'irrevocable' divorce.
Malik said that if a man made any strong
statement such as these to his wife, it counted as three pronouncements of
divorce for a woman whose marriage had been consummated, or it was written as
one of three for a woman whose marriage had not been consummated, whichever the
man wished. If he said he intended only one divorce he swore to it and he became
one of the suitors because, whereas a woman whose marriage had been consummated
was made inaccessible by three pronouncements of divorce, the woman whose
marriage had not been consummated was made inaccessible by only one
pronouncement.
Malik said, "That is the best of what I
have heard."
Section: What is Clear about Giving Wives
Right of Divorce
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Book 29, Number 29.2.10:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that a man came to Abdullah ibn
Umar, and said, "Abu Abd ar-Rahman! I placed the command of my wife in her
hand, and she divorced herself, what do you think?" Abdullah ibn Umar said,
"I think that it is as she said." The man said, "Don't do it, Abu
Abd ar-Rahman!" Ibn Umar said, "You did it, it has nothing to do with
me."
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Book 29, Number 29.2.11:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar said, "When
a man gives a woman command over herself, then the result is as she decides
unless he denies it and says that he only meant to give her one divorce and he
swears to it - then he has access to her while she is in her idda."
Section: Circumstances in Which only One
Pronouncement of Divorce Permitted in Giving Wives Right of Divorce
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Book 29, Number 29.3.12:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Said ibn Sulayman ibn Zayd ibn Thabit that
Kharija ibn Zayd ibn Thabit told him that he was sitting with Zayd ibn Thabit
when Muhammad ibn Abi Atiq came to him with his eyes brimming with tears. Zayd
asked him what the matter was. He said, "I gave my wife command of herself,
and she separated from me." Zayd said to him, "What made you do
that?" He said, "The Decree." Zayd said, "Return to her if
you wish for it is only one pronouncement, and you have access to her."
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Book 29, Number 29.3.13:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abd ar-Rahman ibn al-Qasim from his father
that a man of Thaqif gave his wife command over herself, and she said, "You
are divorced." He was silent. She said, "You are divorced." He
said, "May a stone be in your mouth." She said, "You are
divorced." He said, "May a stone be in your mouth." They argued
and went to Marwan ibn al-Hakam. He took an oath that he had only given her
control over one pronouncement, and then she returned to him.
Malik said that Abd ar-Rahman declared that
this decision had amazed al-Qasim, who thought it the best that he had heard on
the subject.
Malik added, "That is also the best of
what I have heard on the subject."
Section: What is Not Clear in Giving Wives
Right of Divorce
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Book 29, Number 29.4.14:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abd ar-Rahman ibn al-Qasim from his father
that A'isha, umm al-muminin, proposed to Qurayba bint Abi Umayya on behalf of
Abd ar-Rahman ibn Abi Bakr. They married her to him and her people found fault
with Abd ar-Rahman and said, "We only gave in marriage because of A'isha."
A'isha therefore sent for Abd ar-Rahman and told him about it. He gave Qurayba
authority over herself and she chose her husband and so there was no divorce.
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Book 29, Number 29.4.15:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abd ar-Rahman ibn al-Qasim from his father
that A'isha, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace,
gave Hafsa bint Abd arRahman in marriage to al-Mundhir ibn az-Zubayr while Abd
ar-Rahman was away in Syria. When Abd ar-Rahman arrived, he said, "Shall
someone like me have this done to him? Am I the kind of man to have something
done to him without his consent?" A'isha spoke to al-Mundhir ibn az-Zubayr,
and al-Mundhir said, "It is in the hands of Abd ar-Rahman." Abd
ar-Rahman said, "I won't oppose something that you have already
completed." Hafsa was confirmed with al-Mundhir, and there was no divorce.
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Book 29, Number 29.4.16:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Abdullah ibn Umar and Abu
Hurayra were asked about a man who gave his wife power over herself, and she
returned it to him without doing anything with it. They said that there was no
divorce. (i.e. The man's giving his wife power over herself was not interpreted
as a desire for divorce on his part.)
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn
Said that Said ibn al-Musayyab said, "If a man gives his wife authority
over herself, and she does not separate from him and remains with him, there is
no divorce."
Malik said that a woman whose husband gave her
power over herself and they separated while she was unwilling, had no power to
revoke the divorce. She only had power over herself as long as they remained
together.
Section: Annulment of Marriage by Husband's
Vow to Refrain from Intercourse (Ila)
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Book 29, Number 29.5.17:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Jafar ibn Muhammad from his father that Ali
ibn Abi Talib said, "When a man takes a vow to abstain from intercourse,
divorce does not occur immediately. If four months pass, he must declare his
intent and either he is divorced or he revokes his vow . "
Malik said, "That is what is done among
us."
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Book 29, Number 29.5.18:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar said, "When
a man makes a vow to abstain from intercourse with his wife and four months have
passed he must declare his intent and either he is divorced or he revokes his
vow. Divorce does not occur until four months have passed and he continues to
abstain."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab
that Said al-Musayyab and Abu Bakr ibn Abd ar-Rahman said about a man who made a
vow to abstain from intercourse with his wife, "If four months pass it is a
divorce. The husband can go back to his wife as long as she is in her idda."
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Book 29, Number 29.5.19:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Marwan ibn al-Hakam
decided about a man who had made a vow to abstain from intercourse with his
wife, that when four months had passed, it was a divorce and he could return to
her as long as she was in her idda.
Malik added, "That was also the opinion
of Ibn Shihab."
Malik said that if a man made a vow to abstain
from intercourse with his wife and at the end of four months he declared his
intent to continue to abstain, he was divorced. He could go back to his wife,
but if he did not have intercourse with her before the end of her idda, he had
no access to her and he could not go back to her unless he had an excuse -
illness, imprisonment, or a similar excuse. His return to her maintained her as
his wife. If her idda passed and then he married her after that and did not have
intercourse with her until four months had passed and he declared his intent to
continue to abstain, divorce was applied to him by the first vow. If four months
passed, and he had not returned to her, he had no idda against her nor access
because he had married her and then divorced her before touching her.
Malik said that a man who made a vow to
abstain from intercourse with his wife and continued to abstain after four
months and so divorced her, but then returned and did not touch her and four
months were completed before her idda was completed, did not have to declare his
intent and divorce did not befall him. If he had intercourse with her before the
end of her idda, he was entitled to her. If her idda passed before he had
intercourse with her, he had no access to her. This is what Malik preferred of
what he had heard on the subject.
Malik said that if a man made a vow to abstain
from intercourse with his wife and then divorced her, and the four months of the
vow were completed before completion of the idda of the divorce, it counted as
two pronouncements of divorce. If he declared his intention to continue to
abstain and the idda of the divorce finished before the four months the vow of
abstention was not a divorce. That was because the four months had passed and
she was not his on that day.
Malik said, "If someone makes a vow not
to have intercourse with his wife for a day or a month and then waits until more
than four months have passed, it is not ila. Ila only applies to someone who
vows more than four months. As for the one who vows not to have intercourse with
his wife for four months or less than that, I do not think that it is ila
because when the term enters into it at which it stops, he comes out of his oath
and he does not have to declare his intention."
Malik said, "If someone vows to his wife
not to have intercourse with her until her child has been weaned, that is not
ila. I have heard that Ali ibn Abi Talib was asked about that and he did not
think that it was ila."
Section: The Ila (Vow of Abstention) of Slaves
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Book 29, Number 29.6.19a:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had asked Ibn Shihab about the ila of the
slave. He said that it was like the ila of the free man, and it put an
obligation on him. The ila of the slave was two months.
Section: Dhihar of Free Men
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Book 29, Number 29.7.20:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Said ibn Amr ibn Sulaym az-Zuraqi that he
asked al-Qasim ibn Muhammad about a man who made divorce conditional on his
marrying a woman i.e. if he married her he would automatically divorce her. Al-Qasim
ibn Muhammad said, "If a man marries a woman whom he has made as his
mother's back, i.e. has made haram for him, Umar ibn al-Khattab ordered him not
to go near her if he married her until he had done the kaffara for pronouncing
dhihar."
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Book 29, Number 29.7.21:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that a man asked al-Qasim ibn
Muhammad and Sulayman ibn Yasar about a man who pronounced dhihar from his wife
before he had married her. They said, "If he marries her, he must not touch
her until he has done the kaffara for pronouncing dhihar."
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Book 29, Number 29.7.22:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn Urwa that his father said that a
man who pronounced a dhihar from his four wives in one statement, had only to do
one kaffara. Yahya related the same as that to me from Malik from Rabia ibn Abi
Abd ar-Rahman.
Malik said, "That is what is done among
us. Allah, the Exalted said about the kaffara for pronouncing dhihar, 'It is to
free a slave before they touch one another. If he does not find the means to do
that, then fasting for two consecutive months before they touch one another. If
he cannot do that, it is to feed sixty poor people. ' " (Sura 58 ayats
4,5).
Malik said that a man who pronounced dhihar
from his wife on various occasions had only to do one kaffara. If he pronounced
dhihar, and then did kaffara, and then pronounced dhihar after he had done the
kaffara, he had to do kaffara again.
Malik said, "Some one who pronounces
dhihar from his wife and then has intercourse with her before he has done
kaffara, only has to do one kaffara. He must abstain from her until he does
kaffara and ask forgiveness of Allah. That is the best of what I have heard.
"
Malik said, "It is the same with dhihar
using any prohibited relations of fosterage and ancestry."
Malik said, "Women have no
dhihar."
Malik said that he had heard that the
commentary on the word of Allah, the Blessed, the Exalted, "Those of you
who pronounce the dhihar about their wives, and then retract what they have
said," (Sura 56 ayat 3), was that a man pronounced dhihar on his wife and
then decided to keep her and have intercourse with her. If he decided on that,
he must do kaffara. If he divorced her and did not decide to retract his dhihar
of her and to keep her and have intercourse with her, there would be no kaffara
incumbent on him.
Maliksaid, "If he marries her after that,
he does not touch her until he has completed the kaffara of pronouncing dhihar."
Malik said that if a man who pronounced dhihar
from his slave-girl wanted to have intercourse with her, he had to do the
kaffara of the dhihar before he could sleep with her.
Malik said, "There is no ila in a man's
dhihar unless it is evident that he does not intend to retract his dhihar."
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Book 29, Number 29.7.23:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn Urwa that he heard a man ask Urwa
ibn az-Zubayr about a man who said to his wife, "Any woman I marry along
with you as long as you live will be like my mother's back to me." Urwa ibn
az-Zubayr said, "The freeing of slaves is enough to release him from
that."
Section: Dhihar of Slaves
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Book 29, Number 29.8.24:
ahya related to me from Malik that he asked Ibn Shihab about the dhihar of a
slave. He said, "It is like the dhihar of a free man."
Malik said, "He meant that the same
conditions were applied in both cases."
Malik said, "The dhihar of the slave is
incumbent on him, and the fasting of the slave in the dhihar is two months.
"
Malik said that there was no ila for a slave
who pronounced a dhihar from his wife. That was because if he were to fast the
kaffara for pronouncing a dhihar, the divorce of the ila would come to him
before he had finished the fast.
Section: The Option (of Slave-Girls Married to
Slaves when Freed)
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Book 29, Number 29.9.25:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Rabia ibn Abi Abd ar-Rahman from al-Qasim
ibn Muhammad that A'isha umm al-muminin, said, "There were three sunnas
established in connection with Barira: firstly was that when she was set free
she was given her choice about her husband, secondly, the Messenger of Allah,
may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said about her, 'The right of
inheritance belongs to the person who has set a person free,' thirdly, the
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, came in and there
was a pot with meat on the boil. Bread and condiments were brought to him from
the stock of the house. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, said, 'Didn't I see a pot with meat in it?' They said, 'Yes,
Messenger of Allah. That is meat which was given as sadaqa for Barira, and you
do not eat sadaqa.' The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, said, 'It is sadaqa for her, and it is a gift for us.' "
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Book 29, Number 29.9.26:
ahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar said that a
female slave who was the wife of a slave and then was set free, had the right of
choice as long as he did not have intercourse with her.
Malik said, "If her husband has
intercourse with her and she claims that she did not know, she still has the
right of choice. If she is suspect and one does not believe her claim of
ignorance, then she has no choice after he has had intercourse with her."
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Book 29, Number 29.9.27:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab from Urwa ibn az-Zubayr that a
mawla of the tribe of Banu Adi called Zabra told him that she had been the wife
of a slave when she was a slave-girl. Then she was set free and she sent a
message to Hafsa, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace. Hafsa called her and said, "I will tell you something., but I would
prefer that you did not act upon it. You have authority over yourself as long as
your husband does not have intercourse with you. If he has intercourse with you,
you have no authority at all." Therefore she pronounced her divorce from
him three times.
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Book 29, Number 29.9.28:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Said ibn al-Musayyab said
that if a man married a woman, and he was insane or had a physical defect, she
had the right of choice. If she wished she could stay, and if she wished she
could separate from him.
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Book 29, Number 29.9.29:
Malik said that if a slave-girl, who was the wife of a slave, was set free
before he had consummated the marriage, and she chose herself, then she had no
bride-price and it was a pronouncement of divorce. That was what was done among
them.
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Book 29, Number 29.9.30:
Yahya related to me that Malik heard Ibn Shihab say, "When a man gives his
wife the right of choice, and she chooses him, that is not divorce."
Malik added, "That is the best of what I
have heard."
Malik said that if a woman who had been given
the right of choice by her husband chose herself, she was divorced trebly. If
her husband said, "But I only gave her the right of choice in one," he
had none of that. That was the best of what he had heard.
Malik said, "If the man gives his wife
the right of choice and she says, 'I accept one', and he says, 'I did not mean
that, I have given the right of choice in all three together,' then if she only
accepts one, she remains with him in her marriage, and that is not separation if
Allah, the Exalted wills."
Section: Separating from Wives for
Compensation
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Book 29, Number 29.10.31:
Yahya related. to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said that Amra bint Abd ar-Rahman
told him from Habiba bint Sahl al-Ansari that she had been the wife of Thabit
ibn Qays ibn Shammas. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, went out for the dawn prayer, and found Habiba bint Sahl at his door in
the darkness. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace,
said to her, "Who is this?" She said, "I am Habiba bint Sahl,
Messenger of Allah." He said, "What do you want?" She said,
"That Thabit ibn Qays and I separate." When her husband, Thabit ibn
Qays came, the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said
to him, "This is Habiba bint Sahl. She mentioned what Allah willed that she
mention." Habiba said, "Messenger of Allah, all that he has given me
is with me!" The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, said to Thabit ibn Qays, "Take it from her," and he took it
from her, and she stayed in the house of her family.
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Book 29, Number 29.10.32:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi from a mawla of Safiyya bint Abi Ubayd
that she gave all that she possessed to her husband as compensation for her
divorce from him, and Abdullah ibn Umar did not disapprove of that.
Malik said that divorce was ratified for a
woman who ransomed herself from her husband, when it was known that her husband
was detrimental to her and was oppressive for her, and it was known that he
wronged her, and he had to return her property to her. Malik added, "This
is what I have heard, and it is what is done among us."
Malik said, "There is no harm if a woman
ransoms herself from her husband for more than he gave her."
Section: Divorce of Men who Divorce for
Compensation
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Book 29, Number 29.11.33:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Rubayyi bint Muawwidh ibn Afra
came with her paternal uncle to Abdullah ibn Umar and told him that she had
divorced her husband for a compensation in the time of Uthman ibn Affan, and he
heard about it and did not disapprove. Abdullah ibn Umar said, "Her idda is
the idda of a divorced woman."
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had
heard that Said ibn al-Musayyab and Sulayman ibn Yasar and Ibn Shihab all said
that a woman who divorced for a compensation had the same idda as a divorced
woman - three periods.
Malik said that a woman who ransomed herself
could not return to her husband except by a new marriage. If someone married her
and then separated from her before he had intercourse with her, there was no
idda against her from the recent marriage, and she rested on her first idda.
Malik said, "That is the best that I have
heard on the matter."
Malik said, "If, when a woman offers to
compensate her husband, he divorces her straightaway, then that compensation is
confirmed for him. If he makes no response, and then at a later date, does
divorce her, he is not entitled to that compensation."
Section: Lian (Invoking Mutual Curses)
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Book 29, Number 29.12.34:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab that Sahl ibn Sad as-Saidi told
him that Uwaymir al-Ajlani came to Asim ibn Adi al-Ansari and said to him,
"Asim! What do you think a man who finds another man with his wife should
do? Should he kill him and then be killed himself, or what should .he do? Asim!
ask the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, about that
for me." Asim asked the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, about it. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, was revolted by the questions and reproved them until what he heard from
the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. was intolerable
for Asim. When Asim returned to his people, Uwaymir came to him and said, "
Asim! what did the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace,
say to you?" Asim said to Uwaymir, "You didn't bring me any good. The
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, was revolted by the
question which I asked him." Uwaymir said, "By Allah! I will not stop
until I ask him about it!" Uwaymir stood up and went to the Messenger of
Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, in the middle of the people and
said, "Messenger of Allah! What do you think a man who finds another man
with his wife should do? Should he kill him and then be killed himself, or what
should he do?" The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, said, "Something has been sent down about you and your wife, so go
and bring her."
Sahl continued, "They mutually cursed one
another in the presence of the Messenger, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, and I was present with the people. When they finished cursing each other,
Uwaymir said, 'I shall have lied about her, Messenger of Allah, if I keep her,'
and pronounced the divorce three times before the Messenger of Allah, may Allah
bless him and grant him peace, ordered him to do it."
Malik said that Ibn Shihab said, "That
was how the sunna of a couple mutually cursing each other was established (lian)."
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Book 29, Number 29.12.35:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafic from Abdullah ibn Umar that a man
cursed his wife in the time of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, and disowned her child. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, separated them and gave the child to the woman.
Malik said, "Allah the Blessed, the
Exalted, said, 'The testimony of men who accuse their wives but do not have any
witnesses except themselves is to testify by Allah four times that he is being
truthful, and a fifth time, that the curse of Allah will be upon him, if he
should be a liar. She will avoid punishment if she testifies by Allah four times
that he is a liar, and a fifth time, that the wrath of Allah shall be upon her,
if he should be telling the truth. ' "(Sura 24 ayat 6).
Malik said, "The sunna with us is that
those who curse each other are never to be remarried. If the man calls himself a
liar, (i.e. takes back his accusation), he is flogged with the hadd-punishment,
and the child is given to him, and his wife can never return to him. There is no
doubt or dispute about this sunna among us. "
Malik said, "If a man separates from his
wife by an irrevocable divorce by which he cannot return to her, and then he
denies the paternity of the child she is carrying, whilst she claims that he is
the father, and it is possible by the timing, that he be so, he must curse her,
and the child is not recognised as his."
Malik said, "That is what is done among
us, and it is what I have heard from the people of knowledge."
Malik said that a man who accused his wife
after he had divorced her trebly while she was pregnant, and he had at first
accepted being the father but then claimed that he had seen her committing
adultery before he separated from her, was flogged with the hadd-punishment, and
did not curse her.
If he denied the paternity of her child after
he had divorced her trebly, and he had not previously accepted it, then he
cursed her.
Malik said, "This is what I have
heard."
Malik said, "The slave is in the same
position as the free man as regards making accusations and invoking mutual
curses (lian). He acts in the lian as the free man acts although there is no
hadd applied for slandering a female-slave."
Malik said, "The muslim slave-girl and
the christian and jewish free woman also do lian when a free muslim marries one
of them and has intercourse with her. That is because Allah - may He be blessed
and Exalted, said in His Book, 'As for those who accuse their wives,' and they
are their wives. This is what is done among us.
Malik said that a man who did the lian with
his wife, and then stopped and called himself a liar after one or two oaths and
he had not cursed himself in the fifth one, had to be flogged with the hadd-punishment,
but they did not have to be separated.
Malik said that if a man divorced his wife and
then after three months the woman said, "I am pregnant," and he denied
paternity, then he had to do lian.
Malik said that the husband of a female slave
who pronounced the lian on her and then bought her, was not to have intercourse
with her, even if he owned her. The sunna which had been handed down about a
couple who mutually cursed each other in the lian was that they were never to
return to each other.
Malik said that when a man pronounced the lian
against his wife before he had consummated the marriage, she only had half of
the bride price.
Section: Inheritance of Children of Women
against whom Lian has been Pronounced
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Book 29, Number 29.13.36:
Yaha related to me from Malik that he had heard that Urwa ibn az-Zubayr said
that if the child of the woman against whom lian had been pronounced or the
child of fornication, died, his mother inherited from him her right in the Book
of Allah the Exalted, and his maternal half-brothers had their rights. The rest
was inherited by the owners of his mother's wala' if she was a freed slave. If
she was an ordinary free woman, she inherited her right, his maternal brothers
inherited their rights, and the rest went to the muslims.
Malik said,"I heard the same as that from
Sulayman ibn Yasar, and it is what I saw the people of knowledge in our city
doing."
Section: Divorce of Virgins
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Book 29, Number 29.14.37:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab from Muhammad ibn Abd ar-Rahman
ibn Thawban that Muhammad ibn Iyas ibn al-Bukayr said, "A man divorced his
wife three times before he had consummated the marriage, and then it seemed good
to him to marry her. Therefore, he wanted an opinion, and I went with him to ask
Abdullah ibn Abbas and Abu Hurayra on his behalf about it, and they said, 'We do
not think that you should marry her until she has married another husband.' He
protested that his divorcing her had been only once. Ibn Abbas said, 'You threw
away what you had of blessing.' "
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Book 29, Number 29.14.38a:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said from Bukayr ibn Abdullah al-Ashajj
from an-Numan ibn Abi Ayyash al Ansari from Ata ibn Yasar that a man came and
asked Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-As about a man who divorced his wife three times
before he had had intercourse with her Ata said, "The divorce of the virgin
is one. Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-As said to me, 'You say one pronouncement
separates her and three makes her haram until she has married another husband.'
"
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Book 29, Number 29.14.38b:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said that Bukayr ibn Abdullah al-Ashajj
informed him that Muawiya ibn Abi Ayyash al-Ansari told him that he was sitting
with Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr and Asim ibn Umar ibn al-Khattab when Muhammad ibn
Iyas ibn al-Bukayr came up to them and said, "A man from the desert has
divorced his wife three times before consummating the marriage, what do you
think?" Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr said "This is something about which we
have no statement. Go to Abdullah ibn Abbas and Abu Hurayra. I left them with
A'isha. Ask them and then come and tell us." He went and asked them. Ibn
Abbas said to Abu Hurayra, "Give an opinion, Abu Hurayra! A difficult one
has come to you." Abu Hurayra said, "One pronouncement separates her
and three makes her haram until she has married another husband." Ibn Abbas
said the like of that.
Malik said, "That is what is done among
us, and when a man marries a woman who has been married before, and he has not
had intercourse with her, she is treated as a virgin - one pronouncement
separates her and three make her haram until she has married another
husband."
Section: Divorce of Sick Men
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Book 29, Number 29.15.40:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab that Talha ibn Abdullah ibn Awf
said, and he knew that better than them, from Abu Salama ibn Abd ar-Rahman ibn
Awf that Abd ar-Rahman ibn Awf divorced his wife irrevocably while he was
terminally ill, and Uthman ibn Affan made her an heir after the end of her idda.
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Book 29, Number 29.15.41:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdullah ibn al-Fadl from al-Araj that
Uthman ibn Affan made the wives of ibn Mukmil inherit from him, and he had
divorced them while he was terminally ill.
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Book 29, Number 29.15.42:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he heard Rabia ibn Abi Abd ar-Rahman say,
''I heard that the wife of Abd ar-Rahman ibn Awf asked him to divorce her. He
said, 'When you have menstruated and are pure, then come to me.' She did not
menstruate until Abd ar-Rahman ibn Awf was ill. When she was purified, she told
him and he divorced her irrevocably or made a pronouncement of divorce which was
all that he had left over her Abd arRahman ibn Awf was terminally ill at the
time, so Uthman ibn Affan made her one of the heirs after the end of her idda."
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Book 29, Number 29.15.43:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said that Muhammad ibn Yahya ibn
Habban said, "My grandfather Habban had two wives, one from the Hashimites
and one from the Ansars. He divorced the Ansariyya while she was nursing, and a
year passed and he died and she had still not yet menstruated. She said, 'I
inherit from him. I have not menstruated yet.' The wives quarrelled and went to
Uthman ibn Affan. He decided that she did inherit, and the Hashimiyya rebuked
Uthman. He said, 'This is the practice of the son of your paternal uncle. He
pointed this out to us.' He meant Ali ibn Abi Talib."
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Book 29, Number 29.15.44:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard Ibn Shihab say, "When a
man who is terminally ill divorces his wife three times, she inherits from
him."
Malik said, "If he divorces her while he
is terminally ill before he has consummated the marriage, she has half of the
bride-price and inherits, and she does not have to do an idda. If he consummated
the marriage, she has all the dowry and inherits. The virgin and the previously
married woman are the same in this situation according to us."
Section: Compensation in Divorce
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Book 29, Number 29.16.45:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Abd ar-Rahman ibn Awf
divorced his wife, and gave her compensation in the form of a slave-girl.
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that
Abdullah ibn Umar said, "Every divorced woman has compensation except for
the one who is divorced and is allocated a bride-price and has not been touched.
She has half of what was allocated to her."
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Book 29, Number 29.16.46:
Yahya related to me from Malik that Ibn Shihab said, "Every divorced woman
has compensation."
Malik said, "I have also heard the same
as that from al-Qasim ibn Muhammad."
Malik said, "There is no fixed limit
among us as to how small or large the compensation is."
Section: The Divorce of the Slave
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Book 29, Number 29.17.47:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abu'z-Zinad from Sulayman ibn Yasar that
Nufay, a mukatab of Umm Salama the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, or her slave, had a free woman as a wife. He divorced her
twice, and then he wanted to return to her. The wives of the Prophet, may Allah
bless him and grant him peace, ordered him to go to Uthman ibn Affan to ask him
about it. He found him at ad-Daraj with Zayd ibn Thabit. He asked them, and they
both anticipated him and said, "She is haram for you. She is haram for
you."
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Book 29, Number 29.17.48:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab from Said ibn al-Musayyab that
Nufay, a mukatab of Umm Salama, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, divorced his free wife twice, so he asked Uthman ibn Affan for
an opinion, and he said, "She is haram for you."
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Book 29, Number 29.17.49:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdu Rabbih ibn Said from Muhammad ibn
Ibrahim ibn al-Harith at-Taymi that Nufay, a mukatab of Umm Salama, the wife of
the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, asked Zayd ibn Thabit for
an opinion. He said, "I have divorced my free wife twice." Zayd ibn
Thabit said, "She is haram for you."
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Book 29, Number 29.17.50:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar said, "When
the slave divorces his wife twice, she is haram for him until she has married
another husband, whether she is free or a slave. The idda of a free woman is
three menstrual periods, and the idda of a slave-girl is two periods.
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Book 29, Number 29.17.51:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar said, "If a
man gives his slave permission to marry, the divorce is in the hand of the
slave, and nobody else has any power over his divorce. Nothing is held against a
man who takes the slave-girl of his male slave or the slave-girl of his
female-slave."
Section: Maintenance of Slave-Girls Divorced
when Pregnant
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Book 29, Number 29.18.51a:
Malik said, "Neither a free man nor a slave who divorces a slave-girl nor a
slave who divorces a free woman, in an irrevocable divorce, is obliged to pay
maintenance even if she is pregnant, and he cannot return to her."
Malik said, "A free man is not obliged to
pay for the suckling of his son when he is a slave of other people, nor is a
slave obliged to spend his money for what his master owns except with the
permission of his master."
Section: Idda of Women whose Husbands are
Missing
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Book 29, Number 29.19.52:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said from Said ibn al-Musayyab
that Umar ibn al-Khattab said, "The woman who loses her husband and does
not know where he is, waits for four years, then she does idda for four months,
and then she is free to marry."
Malik said, "If she marries after her
idda is over, regardless of whether the new husband has consummated the marriage
or not, her first husband has no means of access to her."
Malik said, "That is what is done among
us and if her husband reaches her before she has remarried, he is more entitled
to her."
Malik said that he had seen people
disapproving of someone who said that one of the people (of knowledge)
attributed to Umar ibn al-Khattab that he said, "Her first husband chooses
when he comes either her bride-price or his wife."
Malik said, "I have heard that Umar ibn
al-Khattab, speaking about a woman whose husband divorced her while he was
absent from her, and then he took her back and the news of his taking her back
had not reached her, while the news of his divorcing her had, and so she had
married again, said, 'Her first husband who divorced her has no means of access
to her whether or not the new husband has consummated the marriage.' "
Malik said, "This is what I like the best
of what I heard about the missing man."
Section: Idda of Divorce and Divorce of
Menstruating Women
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Book 29, Number 29.20.53:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar divorced his
wife while she was menstruating in the time of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah
bless him and grant him peace, Umar ibn al-Khattab asked the Messenger of Allah,
may Allah bless him and grant him peace, about it. The Messenger of Allah, may
Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Go and tell him to take her
back and keep her until she is purified and then has a period and then is
purified. Then if he wishes, he an keep her, and if he wishes he should divorce
her before he has intercourse with her. That is the idda which Allah has
commanded for women who are divorced."
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Book 29, Number 29.20.54:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab from Urwa ibn az-Zubayr from
A'isha, umm al-muminin, that she took Hafsa ibn Abd ar-Rahman ibn Abi Bakr as-Siddiq
into her house when she had entered the third period of her idda. Ibn Shihab
said, "That was mentioned to Amra bint Abd ar-Rahman, and she said that
Urwa had spoken the truth and people had argued with A'isha about it. They said
that Allah, the Blessed, the Exalted, said in His Book, 'Three quru.' A'isha
said, 'You spoke the truth. Do you know what quru are? Quru are times of
becoming pure after menstruation .' "
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Book 29, Number 29.20.55:
Yahya related to me from Malik that Ibn Shihab said that he heard Abu Bakr ibn
Abd ar-Rahman say, "I have never seen any of our fuqaha who did not say
that this was what the statement of A'isha meant."
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Book 29, Number 29.20.56:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi and Zayd ibn Aslam from Sulayman ibn
Yasar that al-Ahwas died in Syria when his wife had begun her third menstrual
period after he had divorced her. Muawiya ibn Abi Sufyan wrote and asked Zayd
ibn Thabit about that. Zayd wrote to him, "When she began her third period,
she was free from him and he was free from her, and he does not inherit from her
nor she from him."
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Book 29, Number 29.20.57:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Abu Bakr ibn Abd ar-Rahman
and Sulayman ibn Yasar and Ibn Shihab used to say, "When the divorced woman
enters the beginning of her third period, she is clearly separated from her
husband and there is no inheritance between them and he has no access to
her."
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Book 29, Number 29.20.58:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar said, "When
a man divorces his wife and she begins her third period, she is free from him
and he is free from her."
Malik said, "This is how things are done
among us."
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Book 29, Number 29.20.59:
Yahya related to me from Malik from al-Fudayl ibn Abi Abdullah, the mawla of al-Mahri
that al-Qasim ibn Muhammad and Salim ibn Abdullah said, "When a woman is
divorced and begins her third period, she is clearly separated from him and is
free to marry again."
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Book 29, Number 29.20.60:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Said ibn al-Musayyab and
Ibn Shihab and Sulayman ibn Yasar all said, "The idda of the woman with a
khul divorce is three periods."
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Book 29, Number 29.20.61:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he heard Ibn Shihab say, "The idda of
the divorced woman is reckoned by the menstrual cycles even if she is estranged
." (The reason the idda is normally reckoned by the menstrual cycle is to
see whether the woman is pregnant or not.)
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Book 29, Number 29.20.62:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said from a man of the Ansar that
his wife asked him for a divorce, and he said to her, "When you have had
your period, then tell me." When she had her period, she told him. He said,
"When you are purified then tell me." When she was purified, she told
him and he divorced her.
Malik said, "This is the best of what I
have heard about it."
Section: Idda of Women in their Houses when
Divorced in Them
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Book 29, Number 29.21.63:
Yahya related to me from Malik thal Yahya ibn Said heard al-Qasim ibn Muhammad
and Sulayman ibn Yasar both mention that Yahya ibn Said ibn al-As divorced the
daughter of Abd ar-Rahman ibn al-Hakam irrevocably, so Abd ar-Rahman ibn al-Hakam
took her away A'isha umm al-muminin sent to Marwan ibn al-Hakam who was the Amir
of al-Madina at that time. She said, "Fear Allah and make him return the
woman to her house." Marwan said in what Sulayman related, ''Abd ar-Rahman
has the upper hand over me." Marwan said in what al-Qasim related,
"Hasn't the affair of Fatima bint Qays reached you?" A'isha said,
"You are forced to mention the story of Fatima " Marwan said, "If
you know that evil, whatever evil there was between those two is enough for
you." (See hadith 67.)
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Book 29, Number 29.21.64:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that the daughter of Said ibn Zayd ibn
Amr ibn Nufayl was the wife of Abdullah ibn Umar ibn Uthman ibn Affan, and he
divorced her irrevocably and she moved out. Abdullah ibn Umar rebuked her for
that.
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Book 29, Number 29.21.65:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar divorced one of
his wives in the house of Hafsa, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him
and grant him peace, while he was on the way to the mosque. He went another
route from behind the houses being averse to ask permission to enter until he
returned to her.
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Book 29, Number 29.21.66:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said that Said ibn al-Musayyab was
asked who was obliged to pay the rent for a woman whose husband divorced her
while she was in a leased house. Said ibn al-Musayyab said, "Her husband is
obliged to pay it." Someone asked, "what if her husband does not have
it?" He said, "Then she must pay it." Someone asked, "And if
she does not have it?" He said, "Then the Amir must pay it."
Section: Maintenance of Divorced Woman
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Book 29, Number 29.22.67:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdullah ibn Yazid, the mawla of al-Aswad
ibn Sufyan from Abu Salama ibn Abd ar-Rahman ibn Awf from Fatima bint Qays that
Abu Amr ibn Hafs divorced her absolutely while he was away in Syria. His agent
sent her some barley and she was displeased with it, saying, "By Allah, I
don't expect anything from you." She went to the Messenger of Allah, may
Allah bless him and grant him peace, and mentioned it to him. He said, "You
have no maintenance." He then ordered her to spend her idda in the house of
Umm Sharik. Then he said, "This is a woman whom my companions visit. Spend
the idda in the house of Ibn Umm Maktum. He is a blind man and you can undress
at his home. When you are free to remarry, tell me."
She continued, "When I was free to
remarry, I mentioned to him that Muawiya ibn Abi Sufyan and Abu Jahm ibn Hisham
had asked for me in marriage. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, said, 'As for Abu Jahm, he never puts down his stick from his
shoulder (i.e. he is always travelling), and as for Muawiya he is a poor man
with no property. Marry Usama ibn Zayd.' I objected to him and he said, 'Marry
Usama ibn Zayd,' so I married him, and Allah put good in it and I was content
with him."
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Book 29, Number 29.22.68:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he heard Ibn Shihab say, "The woman who
is absolutely divorced does not leave her house until she is free to remarry.
She has no maintenance unless she is pregnant. In that circumstance the husband
spends on her until she gives birth."
Malik said, "This is what is done among
us."
Section: Idda of Slave-Girls Divorced by Their
Husbands
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Book 29, Number 29.23.69:
Malik said, "What is done among us when a slave divorces a slave-girl when
she is a slave and then she is set free, is that her idda is the idda of a
slave-girl, and her being set free does not change her idda whether or not he
can still return to her. Her idda is not altered."
Malik added, "The hadd-punishment which a
slave incurs is the same as this. When he is freed after he has incurred but
before the punishment has been executed, his hadd is the hadd of the
slave."
Malik said, "When a free man divorces a
slave-girl three times, her idda is two periods. When a slave divorces a free
woman twice, her idda is three periods."
Malik said about a man who had a slave-girl as
a wife, and he bought her and set her free, ''Her idda is the idda of a
slave-girl, i.e. two periods, as long as he has not had intercourse with her. If
he has had intercourse with her after buying her and before he set her free, she
only has to wait until one period has passed . "
Section: General Chapter on Idda of Divorce
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Book 29, Number 29.24.70:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said and from Yazid ibn Abdullah
ibn Qusayt al-Laythi that Said ibn al-Musayyab said, ''Umar ibn al-Khattab said,
'If a woman is divorced and has one or two periods and then stops menstruating,
she must wait nine months. If it is clear that she is pregnant, that is that. If
not, she must do an idda of three months after the nine, and then she is free to
marry.' "
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn
Said that Said ibn al-Musayyab said, "Divorce belongs to men, and women
have the idda."
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Book 29, Number 29.24.71:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab that Said ibn al-Musayyab said,
"The idda of the woman who bleeds constantly is a year."
Malik said, "What is done among us about
a divorced woman whose periods stop when her husband divorces her is that she
waits nine months. If she has not had a period in them, she has an idda of three
months. If she has a period before the end of the three months, she accepts the
period. If another nine months pass without her having a period, she does an
idda of three months. If she has a second period before the end of those three
months, she accepts the period. If nine months then pass without a period, she
does an idda of three months. If she has a third period, the idda of the period
is complete. If she does not have a period, she waits three months, and then she
is free to marry. Her husband can return to her before she becomes free to marry
unless he made her divorce irrevocable."
Malik said, "The sunna with us is that
when a man divorces his wife and has the option to return to her, and she does
part of her idda and then he returns to her and then parts from her before he
has had intercourse with her, she does not add to what has passed of her idda.
Her husband has wronged himself and erred if he returned to her and had no need
of her."
Malik said, "What is done among us is
that if a woman becomes a muslim while her husband is a kafir and then he
becomes muslim, he is entitled to her as long as she is in her idda. If her idda
is finished, he has no access to her. If he remarries her after the end of her
idda, however, that is not counted as divorce. Islam removed her from him
without divorce."
Section: The Two Arbiters
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Book 29, Number 29.25.72:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Ali ibn Abi Talib said
about the two arbiters about whom Allah, the Exalted, said,"If you fear a
breach between the two, appoint an arbiter from his people, and an arbiter from
her people. If they desire to set things aright, Allah will make peace between
them, surely Allah is Knowing, Aware," (Sura 4 ayat 35), that the
separation and the joining were overseen by the two of them.
Malik said, "That is the best of what I
have heard from the people of knowledge. Whatever the two arbiters say
concerning separation or joining is taken into consideration "
Section: Oath of Men to Divorce while Not yet
Married
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Book 29, Number 29.26.73:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Umar ibn al-Khattab,
Abdullah ibn Umar, Abdullah ibn Masud, Salim ibn Abdullah, al-Qasim ibn
Muhammad, Ibn Shihab,and Sulayman ibn Yasar all said, "If a man has vowed
to divorce his wife before marrying her and then he breaks his vow, divorce is
obligatory for him when he marries her."
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had
heard that Abdullah ibn Masud said that there was nothing binding on someone who
said, "Every woman I marry is divorced," if he did not name a specific
tribe or woman.
Malik said, "That is the best of what I
have heard."
Malik said about a man saying to his wife,
"You are divorced, and every woman I marry is divorced," or that all
his property would be sadaqa if he did not do such-and-such, and he broke his
oath: "As for his wives, it is divorce as he said, and as for his
statement, 'Every woman I marry is divorced', if he did not name a specific
woman, tribe, or land, or such, it is not binding on him and he can marry as he
wishes. As for his property, he gives a third of it away as sadaqa."
Section: Deadline of Men who do Not have
Intercourse with Their Wives
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Book 29, Number 29.27.74:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab that Said ibn al-Musayyab said,
"If someone marries a woman and cannot have intercourse with her, there is
a deadline of a year set for him to have intercourse with her. If he does not,
they are separated."
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Book 29, Number 29.27.154:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had asked Ibn Shihab about whether the
deadline was set from the day he had married her, or from the day she raised the
question before the Sultan. He said. 'It is from the day she presents it before
the Sultan.'
Malik said, "As for someone who has
intercourse with his wife and then is prevented from intercourse with her, I
have not heard that there is a deadline set for him or that they are
separated."
Section: General Section on Divorce
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Book 29, Number 29.28.76:
Yahya related to me from Malik that Ibn Shihab said, "I have heard that the
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said to a man from
Thaqif who had ten wives when he became muslim, 'Take four and separate from the
rest.' "
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Book 29, Number 29.28.77:
Yahya related to me from Malik that Ibn Shihab said that he had heard Said ibn
al-Musayyab, Humayd ibn Abd ar-Rahman ibn Awf, Ubaydullah ibn Abdullah ibn Utba
ibn Masud, and Sulayman ibn Yasarall say, that they had heard Abu Hurayra say
that he had heard Umar ibn al-Khattab say, "If a woman is divorced by her
husband once or twice, and he leaves her until she is free to marry and she
marries another husband and he dies or divorces her, and then she marries her
first husband, she is with him according to what remains of her divorce."
Malik said, "That is what is done among
us and there is no dispute about it."
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Book 29, Number 29.28.78:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Thabit ibn al-Ahnaf that he married an umm
walad of Abd ar-Rahman ibn Zayd ibn al-Khattab. He said, "Abdullah ibn Abd
ar-Rahman ibn Zayd ibn al-Khattab summoned me and I went to him. I came in upon
him and there were whips and two iron fetters placed there, and two of his
slaves whom he had made to sit there. He said, 'Divorce her, or by He by whom
one swears, I will do such-and-such to you!' I said, 'It is divorce a thousand
times.' Then I left him and I saw Abdullah ibn Umar on the road to Makka and I
told him about my situation. Abdullah ibn Umar was furious, and said, 'That is
not divorce, and she is not haram for you, so return to your home.' I was still
not at ease so I went to Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr who was the Amir of Makka at
that time. I told him about my situation and what Abdullah ibn Umar had said to
me. Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr said to me, 'She is not haram for you, so return to
your home,' and he wrote to Jabir ibn al-Aswad az-Zuhra who was the Amir of
Madina and ordered him to punish Abdullah ibn Abdar-Rahman and to have him leave
me and my family alone. I went to Madina, and Safiyya, the wife of Abdullah ibn
Umar fitted out my wife so that she could bring her to my house with the
knowledge of Abdullah ibn Umar. Then I invited Abdullah ibn Umar on the day of
my wedding to the wedding feast and he came."
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Book 29, Number 29.28.79:
Yahya related to me from Malik that Abdullah ibn Dinar said, "I heard
Abdullah ibn Umar recite from the Qur'an, 'Prophet! When you divorce women,
divorce them at the beginning of their idda.'"
Malik said, "He meant by that, to make
one pronouncement of divorce at the beginning of each period of purity."
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Book 29, Number 29.28.80:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn Urwa that his father said,
"It used to be that a man would divorce his wife and then return to her
before her idda was over, and that was alright, even if he divorced her a
thousand times. The man went to his wife and then divorced her and when the end
of her idda was in sight, he took her back and then divorced her and said, 'No!
By Allah, I will not go to you and you will never be able to marry again.'
Allah, the Blessed, the Exalted, sent down, 'Divorce is twice, then honourable
retention or setting free kindly.' People then turned towards divorce in a new
light from that day whether or not they were divorced or not divorced."
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Book 29, Number 29.28.81:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Thawr ibn Zayd ad-Dili that Allah, the
Blessed, the Exalted, sent down about a man who divorced his wife and then
returned to her while he had no need of her and did not mean to keep her so as
to make the idda period long for her by that in order to do her harm, "Do
not retain them by force, to transgress. Whoever does that has wronged
himself." (Sura 2 ayat 231). Allah warns them by that ayat.
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Book 29, Number 29.28.82:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Said ibn al-Musayyab and
Sulayman ibn Yasar were asked about a man who divorced when he was drunk. They
said, "When a drunk man divorces, his divorce is allowed. If he kills, he
is killed for it."
Malik said, "That is what is done among
us."
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had
heard that Said ibn al-Musayyab said, "If a man does not find the means to
spend on his wife, they are to be separated . "
Malik said, "That is what I saw the
people of knowledge in our city doing."
29.30 Idda of Widows when Pregnant
Section: Idda of Widows when Pregnant
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Book 29, Number 29.29.83:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdu Rabbih ibn Said ibn Qays that Abu
Salama ibn Abd ar-Rahman said that Abdullah ibn Abbas and Abu Hurayra were asked
when a pregnant woman whose husband had died could remarry. Ibn Abbas said,
"At the end of two periods." Abu Hurayra said, "When she gives
birth, she is free to marry." Abu Salama ibn Abd ar-Rahman visited Umm
Salama, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and
asked her about it Umm Salama said, ''Subaya al-Aslamiya gave birth half a month
after the death of her husband, and two men asked to marry her. One was young
and the other was old. She preferred the young man and so the older man said,
'You are not free to marry yet.' Her family were away and he hoped that when her
family came, they would give her to him. She went to the Messenger of Allah, may
Allah bless him and grant him peace, and he said, 'You are free to marry, so
marry whomever you wish.' "
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Book 29, Number 29.29.84:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar was asked about
a woman whose husband died while she was pregnant, and he said, "When she
gives birth, she is free to marry." A man of the Ansar who was with him
told him that Umar ibn al-Khattab had said, "Had she given birth while her
husband was still on his bed, unburied, she would be free to marry."
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Book 29, Number 29.29.85:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn 'Urwa from his father that al-Miswar
ibn Makhrama told him that Subaya al-Aslamiya gave birth a few nights after the
death of her husband. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, said to her, "You are free to marry, so marry whomever you
wish."
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Book 29, Number 29.29.86:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said from Sulayman ibn Yasar that
Abdullah ibn Abbas and Abu Salama ibn Abd ar-Rahman ibn Awf differed on the
question of a wornan who gave birth a few nights after the death of her husband.
Abu Salama said, "When she gives birth to the child she is carrying, she is
free to marry." Ibn Abbas said, "At the end of two periods." Abu
Hurayra came and said, "I am with my nephew", meaning Abu Salama. They
sent Kurayb, a mawla of Abdullah ibn Abbas to Umm Salama, the wife of the
Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, to ask her about it. He came
back and told them that she had said that Subaya al-Aslamiya had given birth a
few nights after the death of her husband, and she had brought the matter to the
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and he had said,
"You are free to marry, so marry whomever you wish."
Malik said, "This is how the people of
knowledge here continue to act."
29.31 Widows Remaining in Their Houses until
Free to Marry
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Book 29, Number 29.29.87:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Said ibn Ishaq ibn Kab ibn Ujra from his
paternal aunt, Zaynab bint Kab ibn Ujra that al-Furaya bint Malik ibn Sinan, the
sister of Abu Said al-Khudri, informed her that she went to the Messenger of
Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and asked to be able to return
to her people among the Banu Khudra since her husband had gone out in search of
some of his slaves who had run away and he had caught up with them near al-Qudum,
(which is 6 miles from Madina), and they had killed him.
She said, "I asked the Messenger of
Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, if I could return to my people
in the Banu Khudra, as my husband had not left me in a dwelling which belonged
to him, and had left me no maintenance. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, said,'Yes.' So I left. When I was in the courtyard, the
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, called me or
summoned me, and I answered him. He said, 'What did you say?' I repeated the
story about my husband. He said, 'Stay in your house until what is written
reaches its term.' I did the idda in the house for four months and ten
days."
She added, "When Uthman ibn Affan sent
for me, I told him that, and he followed it and made decisions by it."
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Book 29, Number 29.29.88:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Humayd ibn Qays al-Makki from Amr ibn Shuayb
from Said ibn al-Musayyab that Umar ibn al-Khattab sent back widows from the
desert and prevented them from doing the hajj.
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn
Saqd that he had heard that as-Sa'ib ibn Khabbab died, and his wife went to
Abdullah ibn Umar and mentioned to him that her husband had died and mentioned
some land which they had at Qanah, (a district on the outskirts of Madina), and
asked him if it would be alright for her to stay overnight there. He forbade her
to do so. So, she went out before dawn from Madina and spent the whole day on
their land, but when evening came, she spent the night in her house.
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Book 29, Number 29.29.89:
Yahya related to me from Malik that Hisham ibn Urwa said about a Bedouin woman
whose husband died, that she was to stay where her people stayed.
Malik said, "This is what is done among
us."
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Book 29, Number 29.29.90:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullan ibn Umar said, "The
only place a woman whose husband has died and a woman who is absolutely divorced
can spend the night is in their houses."
Section: Idda of an Umm Walad when Her Master
Dies
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Book 29, Number 29.30.91:
Yahya related to me from Malik that Yahya ibn Said said that he had heard al-Qasim
ibn Muhammad say that Zayd ibn Abd al-Malik separated some men and their wives
who were slave-girls who had borne children to men who had died, because they
had married them after one or two menstrual periods. He separated them until
they had done an idda of four months and ten days. Al-Qasim ibn Muhammad said,
"Glory be to Allah! Allah says in His Book, 'Those of you who die, leaving
wives, they are not wives.' "
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Book 29, Number 29.30.92:
Malik related to me from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar said, "The idda of an
umm walad when her master dies is one menstrual period."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn
Said that al-Qasim ibn Muhammad said, "The idda of an umm walad when her
master dies is one menstrual period."
Malik said, "This is what is done among
us."
Malik added, "If she does not have a
menstrual period, her idda is three months."
Section: Idda of Slave-Girls whose Master or
Husband Dies
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Book 29, Number 29.31.93:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Said ibn al-Musayyab and
Sulayman ibn Yasar said, "The idda of a slave-girl when her husband dies is
two months and five days."
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Book 29, Number 29.31.94:
Yahya related to me the like of that from Malik from Ibn Shihab.
Malik said, about a slave who divorced a
slave-girl but did not make it absolute, "He can return to her. If he then
dies while she is still in the idda from her divorce, she does the idda of a
slave-girl whose husband dies, and it is two months and five days. If she has
been set free and he can return to her, and she does not choose to separate
after she has been set free, and he dies while she is in the idda from the
divorce, she does the idda of a free woman whose husband has died, four months
and ten days. That is because the idda of widowhood befell her while she was
free, so her idda is the idda of a free woman."
Malik said, "That is what is done among
us."
Section: Coitus Interruptus
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Book 29, Number 29.32.95:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Rabia ibn Abi Abd ar-Rahman from Muhammad
ibn Yahya ibn Habban that Ibn Muhayriz said, "I went into the mosque and
saw Abu Said al-Khudri and so I sat by him and asked him about coitus
interruptus. Abu Said al-Khudri said, 'We went out with the Messenger of Allah,
may Allah bless him and grant him peace, on the expedition to the Banu al-Mustaliq.
We took some Arabs prisoner, and we desired the women as celibacy was hard for
us. We wanted the ransom, so we wanted to practise coitus interruptus. We said,
'Shall we practise coitus interruptus while the Messenger of Allah, may Allah
bless him and grant him peace, is among us before we ask him?' We asked him
about that and he said, 'You don't have to not do it. There is no self which is
to come into existence up to the Day of Rising but that it will come into
existence.' "
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Book 29, Number 29.32.96:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abu'n-Nadr, the mawla of Umar ibn Ubaydullah
from Amir ibn Sad ibn Abi Waqqas from his father that he used to practise coitus
interruptus.
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Book 29, Number 29.32.97:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abu'n-Nadr, the mawla of Umar ibn Ubaydullah
from Ibn Aflah, the mawla of Abu Ayyub al-Ansari from an umm walad of Abu
Ayyubal-Ansari that he practised coitus interruptus.
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Book 29, Number 29.32.98:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Abdullah ibn Umar did not practise
coitus interruptus and thought that it was disapproved.
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Book 29, Number 29.32.99:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Damra ibn Said al-Mazini from al-Hajjaj ibn
Amr ibn Ghaziya that he was sitting with Zayd ibn Thabit when Ibn Fahd came to
him. He was from the Yemen. He said, "Abu Said! I have slave-girls. None of
the wives in my keep are more pleasing to me than them, and not all of them
please me so much that I want a child by them, shall I then practise coitus
interruptus?" Zayd ibn Thabit said, "Give an opinion, Hajjaj!"
"I said, 'May Allah forgive you! We sit with you in order to learn from
you!' He said, 'Give an opinion! 'I said, 'She is your field, if you wish, water
it, and if you wish, leave it thirsty. I heard that from Zayd.' Zayd said, 'He
has spoken the truth.' "
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Book 29, Number 29.32.100:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Humayd ibn Qays al-Makki that a man called
Dhafif said that Ibn Abbas was asked about coitus interruptus. He called a
slave-girl of his and said, "Tell them." She was embarrassed. He said,
"It is alright, and I do it myself."
Malik said, "A man does not practise
coitus interruptus with a free woman unless she gives her permission. There is
no harm in practising coitus interruptus with a slave-girl without her
permission. Someone who has someone else's slave-girl as a wife, does not
practise coitus interruptus with her unless her people give him
permission."
Section: Limit of Abstaining from Adornment in
Mourning
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Book 29, Number 29.33.101:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr ibn Muhammad ibn Amr
ibn Hazm from Humayd ibn Nafi that Zaynab bint Abi Salama related these three
traditions to him. Zaynab said, "I visited Umm Habiba, the wife of the
Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, when her father Abu Sufyan ibn
Harb had died. Umm Habiba called for a yellowy perfume perhaps khaluq or
something else. She rubbed the perfume first on a slave-girl and she then wiped
it on the sides of her face and said, 'By Allah! I have no need of perfume but I
heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, 'It
is not halal for a woman who trusts in Allah and the Last Day to abstain from
adornment in mourning for someone who has died, for more than three nights,
except for four months and ten days for a husband.' "
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Book 29, Number 29.33.102:
Zaynab said, "I went to the house of Zaynab bint Jahsh, the wife of the
Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, when her brother had died. She
called for perfume and put some on and said, 'By Allah! I have no need of
perfume, but I heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, say, 'It is not halal for a woman who trusts in Allah and the Last Day to
abstain from adornment in mourning for someone who has died for more than three
nights, except for four months and ten days for a husband.' "
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Book 29, Number 29.33.103:
Zaynab said, "I heard my mother, Umm Salama, the wife of the Prophet, may
Allah bless him and grant him peace, say that a woman came to the Messenger of
Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'Messenger of Allah!
My daughter's husband died, and her eyes are troubling her, can she put kohl on
them?' The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said,
'No' two or three times. Then he said, 'It is only four months and ten days. In
the Jahiliyya, none of you threw away the piece of dung until a year had
passed.' "
Humayd ibn Nafi said, "I asked Zaynab to
explain what 'throwing away the piece of dung at the end of a year' meant.
Zaynab said, 'In the Jahiliyya when a woman's husband died, she went into a
small tent and dressed in the worst of clothes. She did not touch perfume or
anything until a year had passed. Then she was brought an animal - a donkey, a
sheep, or a bird, and she would break her idda with it, by rubbing her body
against it (taftaddu). Rarely did she break her idda with anything (by rubbing
herself against it) but that it died. Then she would come out and would be given
a piece of dung. She would throw it away and then return to whatever she wished
of perfumes or whatever.' "
Malik explained, 'Taftaddu' means to wipe her
skin with it in the same way as with a healing charm."
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Book 29, Number 29.33.104:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi from Safiyya bint Abi Ubayd from A'isha
and Hafsa, the wives of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace,
that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said,
"It is not halal for a woman in mourning for someone who has died, if she
trusts in Allah and the Last Day, to abstain from adornment for more than three
nights, except for a husband."
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Book 29, Number 29.33.105:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Umm Salama, the wife of
the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said to a woman in
mourning for her husband whose eyes were troubling her and the pain had become
very strong, "Apply jala kohl at night and wipe it off in the day."
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Book 29, Number 29.33.106:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Salim ibn Abdullah and
Sulayman ibn Yasar said that if a woman whose husband had died feared that an
inflammation of her eyes might affect her sight or that some complaint might
befall her, she should put kohl on and seek a remedy with kohl or some other
cure even if it had perfume in it.
Malik said, "If there is a necessity, the
deen of Allah is ease."
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Book 29, Number 29.33.107:
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafic that Saffiyya bint Abi Ubayd suffered
from an eye-complaint while she was in mourning for her husband, Abdullah ibn
Umar. She did not apply kohl until her eyes almost had ramas (a dry white
secretion in the corners of the eye).
Malik said, "A woman whose husband has
died should anoint her eyes with olive oil and sesame oil and the like of that
since there is no perfume in it."
Malik said, "A woman in mourning for her
husband should not put on any jewellery - rings, anklets, or such-like, neither
should she dress in any sort of colourful, striped garment unless it is coarse.
She should not wear any cloth dyed with anything except black, and she should
only dress her hair with things like lotus-tree leaves which do not dye the
hair."
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Book 29, Number 29.33.108:
108 Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that the Messenger of
Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, visited Umm Salama while she was
in mourning for Abu Salama and she had put aloes on her eyes. He said,
"What is this, Umm Salama?" She said, "It is only aloes,
Messenger of Allah." He said, "Put it on at night and wipe it off in
the daytime."
Malik said, "The mourning of a young girl
who has not yet had a menstrual period takes the same form as the mourning of
one who has had a period. She avoids what a mature woman avoids if her husband
dies."
Malik said, "A slave-girl mourns her
husband when he dies for two months and five nights like her idda.''
Malik said, "An umm walad does not have
to mourn when her master dies, and a slave-girl does not have to mourn when her
master dies. Mourning is for those with husbands."
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Book 29, Number 29.33.109:
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Umm Salama, the wife of
the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "A mourning
woman can rub her head with lotus leaves and olive oil.''
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